One of the
most sensible pacts that my husband and I have made is the no gifting policy. Well,
it was more for my comfort. I have always found it incredibly difficult to buy
the man something he would appreciate and cherish. A typical gift buying
conversation would go like this -
Me: “A wallet?
A watch perhaps?”
He: ”Please don’t
waste money, I already have one of each”.
Me: “A pen?”
He: “I don’t
write”
Me: “A
gadget – phone, tab?”
He: “Hmmm...
sounds interesting, but let’s wait for the next version to come out”
You get the
drift right??
If you use
the word ‘fast’ and ‘cars’ in the same sentence anywhere in the vicinity of my
husband, you can be sure to see his eyes light up. It is a dream that he knows
will never come true – being a race car driver.
So, during
our trip to Italy, when I figured we would be crossing Maranello en route Pisa,
we just had to make a pit stop (pun intended!) Maranello is best known for the
Ferrari factory. Despite being a shoestring budget trip, I decided to splurge
on this one occasion and gift him a 20 minute Ferrari drive! It would make up
for all the lack of gifting for eternity.
The museum visit
by itself had given him such an adrenalin rush, he could hardly make up his
mind between a Lamborghini and a Ferrari California. After much thought and
deliberation, he went with the latter. We had a person from the shop accompany
us on the drive, explaining the controls et al.
Then we hit
the highway. Boy! I had butterflies in my stomach, just being a silent co passenger.
The revving engine, the wind in my hair, the speed, the roads… I have
goosebumps even as I write this! I can imagine how exciting it must have been
for him to actually get to drive it.
My husband and I also have a no gifting policy. For the most part it works very well, but he slips sometimes and splurges on a gift card (he knows I prefer shopping to flowers). I think our policy makes our relationship better because it eliminates unnecessary pressure.
ReplyDeleteThe Ferrari ride sounds fabulous, and it is something you both enjoyed, which is the best kind of gift. via A to Z Challenge
That's sweet. We enjoyed it thoroughly. It was a one of a kind experience!
DeleteI have visited Pisa but not Maranello. What a loving thoughtful gift... I have to be creative with my husband as well. You were more than creative a gift of a thrill, a memory, an adventure and an experience to last a lifetime! Lucky husband indeed . Thanks for dropping by #a2zchallenge ☮Peace ☮ ღ ONE ℒℴνℯ ღ ☼ Light ☼ visiting from http://4covert2overt.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeleteOh, there's not much to do in Maranello if you are not a Ferrari fan. Thanks for the generous words Egan :)
DeleteBoy... you guys go all the way, don't you? :-) Super cool!
ReplyDeleteYeah, I was pretty sure we wouldn't travel to Maranello again. So, decided to enjoy it while we were there!
DeleteI remember seeing a pic of him in the Lamborghini! :)
ReplyDeleteI think you are refering to his FB profile pic.. It is in a red Ferrari. :)
DeleteNow THAT sounds like a great gift. I have trouble locating exciting opportunities like this...I'm not a very creative gift giver!
ReplyDeleteStephanie
http://stephie5741.blogspot.com
Oh no, I did not work too hard to make this happen. Maranello was anyway on our itinerary. I just made a spur-of-the-moment decision to gift him the drive :)
DeleteExperience, memories...the best gifts. What a great idea, Aarthi!
ReplyDelete:) Thanks Corinne!
DeleteWhat we encounter when we least expect it...
ReplyDeleteThank you,
Susan
Garden of Eden Blog
Very true Susan. Thanks for visiting my blog!
DeleteI love it! Nothing is a better gift than an experience. Things fade a break. Memories are forever.
ReplyDeleteTrue Heroes from A to Z
Oh yes Crystal. Memories are what we take to our graves :) Welcome to The Magic Quill. Hope you liked looking around my blog.
DeleteHow awesome - I bet the ride was a total rush! And I think that's how gift giving should be - getting something *whenever* just because you know that the person will love it, not just buying some ol' anything because the calendar says it's time.
ReplyDeleteHope you’re having fun with the A to Z challenge,
Jocelyn
Well said Jocelyn, how true!!! Thanks for stopping by my blog :) Really appreciate you taking the time out to comment amidst the crazy blog hopping!
DeleteWOAH! He is one luck guy! :D That sounds so cool!
ReplyDeleteI am going to show him this comment and never let him hear the end of it :) Thanks Diptee, you made my day! :D
DeleteFabulous. I'd love to do this for my husband.Sounds fantastic :)
ReplyDeleteOh you should try it. There are loads of sites where you can book tickets for a drive in advance. It is completely worth it :)
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